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Are slot machines rigged? What about online slots? (Answer: Not the way you think)

October 7, 2026 by theexgambler Leave a Comment

I was convinced the online slot I was playing was rigged. Because when I started playing, it would start by giving me a lot of payouts. But after a while, it completely stopped paying off anything. It almost felt like it was paying initially to get me hooked and stopped paying off when I was hooked.

To add to the doubt, as soon as I made up my mind to not add any more money and quit, it gave me a decent win. Almost as if it knew when I was about to leave and gave me a bonus just to keep me continue playing.

After much research, the answer to my doubts is that slots are RNG. And they do not need to be rigged to be profitable to casinos.

The simple answer is, the slots work according to the law of large numbers. Over a period of time, slots will pay less than what’s put in.

So in the sense that Casinos are cheating the programming or machinery of the slots; they most likely are not. Most land based casinos and licensed online casinos have to abide by strict regulations to ensure fair play.

So what feels like skewed programming, is something that can happen over a long period of time if RNG and a house edge (RTP) is involved.

That’s what I found out back then, and used it to convince myself that it’s okay to continue gambling on slots. After all, I was due a big win after spending so much on it. Even if the house always wins, there is a chance I can still hit big. Besides, at that point, it was just harmless fun, even if I was spending a lot of time and money on slots. It helped destress me and forget about things going on in my life that I didn’t want to think about.

But that information, in the opinion of my present self, was incomplete. It only spoke of odds and maths and ignored the human side of gambling.

The truth is that slots, online or land based, are designed to be extremely addictive. It’s not just the game, it’s everything, from the sound, to the visuals, the convenience, the math and the bonuses. Literally every little detail of the slots is designed to maximize the time you play, and as a result, maximize the amount of money you spend on them.

What’s more alarming is that the more you play, the more you are likely to get addicted to it as your brain becomes accustomed to the quick and continuous dopamine hit. Every game resolves in itself and it provides a type of satisfaction along with the dopamine hit that is very difficult to get elsewhere… at least that was the case for me.

So while I was able to convince myself that slots are not rigged and it’s okay to continue playing them, I failed to truly see the addictive nature of slot machines and how it was affecting me.

A lot of people say that Casinos are just about math. But they are much more than that. They are about psychology and your biology. And how it’s used to extract as much money out of you as possible.

The house always wins not just because the odds favor them, but also because they are designed to keep people playing for as long as possible, sometimes at the expense of the mental, emotional and financial health of a person.

Let me explain in detail…

The Law Doesn’t Allow It

Casinos risk a lot more if they rig the slots. That is, if they cheat the system. It’s just much easier to play fair, keep the systems abide by the regulatory authority of whichever country or state they are licensed in, and continue printing cash.

Why would they cheat and risk their license if the slots already provide them a mathematical advantage?

I am not saying it can’t be rigged.

There have been cases of people actually rigging gambling machines. In the 1980s, a licensed Las Vegas slot-route operator called American Coin was found to have altered software in hundreds of machines so some jackpots wouldn’t be paid.

That was actual rigging. It was cheating. And as a result of it, the operator lost its license.

Technically, it can still happen today. But it’s highly unlikely for an operator to risk losing its business, and the casinos to risk losing their reputation by cheating or rigging a machine.

Especially if the slot or casino is popular, because in large numbers, the math favours them overwhelmingly.

The Math Of Slot Machines

The house always wins. That means the house always has a mathematical edge. Any casino, whether online or land based, keeps a mathematical edge on all its games.

The best example for this is the roulette table. There are 18 red pockets and 18 black pockets, which would make betting on either a 50/50 chance. But add a green zero, where both bets lose, and your chance of winning drops to 48.65%. Some roulette tables have two green pockets to give the house an even greater edge.

With slots, the house edge is computerized. And it’s measured in RTP. Return To Player.

Now when I first learned of RTP, I thought that over time, I will get 96% of what I deposit back to me if I continue to play. So by that calculation, if I deposit $10,000 over a period of five years, conservatively I should get at least 80% or $8,000 back in winnings.

Boy was I wrong. Because I did not fully understand how RTP is actually calculated. And how it works over large numbers.

First, RTP is calculated on amounts wagered. Not the amount you deposit. So if you deposit $100, and you play for a period of an hour, during that one hour, you have won some amount, and lost some amount. Whatever you won, was wagered back into the machine. So that amount counts towards the RTP as well.

To demonstrate this, let me show you what a session would look like if a machine gives you exactly 96% RTP on every spin. So you always win 96 cents on the dollar.

But before I show it to you, let’s me ask you this question…

If you deposited $100 in the machine, made a $1 bet and played a game every 6 seconds for four hours; guess how much money you would have remaining?

Not 96% of $100.

It will be 96% of the amount you would have wagered. Over a period of 4 hours and 10 minutes, you would have wagered everything you won back in the machine, totalling $2500.

And the machine would have given you exactly 96% of it back, that is $2400.

Since you only deposited $100, you would lose all of it by the 4 hours and 10 minutes mark.

You are not leaving the machine with 96% of what you deposited. That would be $96. No, instead you are leaving with Zero because the 96% that was returned by the machine was given back to the machine over and over again until there was nothing left.

RTP calculated over time showing how balance reduces even when the machine gives exact RTP on every spin
How RTP affects your balance over time in slots

But RTP is not calculated only towards your gaming session. It’s calculated over 100,000s of sessions across the life of the machine. So essentially, it doesn’t have to give you a 96% RTP exactly. As long as the average RTP over a long period of time is 96%.

Which brings in the luck factor. To demonstrate it, I built my own PAR sheet for a machine that doesn’t exist, which I call Reference 96. I modelled it on one real manufacturer PAR sheet, a Bally sheet from 2000, and two PAR sheet reconstructions by Michael Shackleford at Wizard of Odds: IGT’s Red White & Blue and Vamos a Las Vegas.

This game, according to the PAR sheet I created, had a volatility index of 12.59 (in line with the example PAR sheets I used) and an RTP of 96%.

I then used the PAR sheet to run a simulation using a simple script.

For each simulation, $100 was deposited in the machine, $1 was wagered for every spin. The play stopped at 4000 spins, or when the money ran out. I ran the simulation 200,000 times.

Here’s what a typical median session looks like. Note that $100 was deposited into the machine, but over time, $580 was wagered. The machine returned $480, with a return of 82.8%, leading to depletion of balance.

And here are some other noticeable sessions. Just to give you an idea of what sessions can look like over a playtime of six hours.

These six sessions were chosen just as an example to show you how contrastingly different, different sessions can be. One can end in 17 minutes, while another can last for more than six hours on the same deposit.

Notice that in the fifth example session (bottom left), you win a significant amount of money and your balance goes above $200. But as you keep playing, you go back to zero (still giving you exactly a 96% RTP)

In the 6th example session (bottom right), the session drops to $25 after twenty minutes followed by two big early wins, and one really big win by the end of 6th hour. At the end of 6 hours 40 minutes (total 4000 spins), you end up positive, which is a really good outcome. The truth of slot machines is that miracle sessions like this can happen. The math allows them. Which is why it’s so enticing for players to continue playing. But more on the psychology of this later.

For now, wanna guess what the total RTP machine gave over these six sessions where 5 of the 6 people went broke?

97%

SessionSpinsWageredReturnedRTP
Broke, 17 min170$170$7041.18%
Broke, 32 min320$320$22068.75%
Broke, 58 min580$580$48082.76%
Broke, 3h 17m1,970$1,970$1,87094.92%
Broke, 4h 12m2,515$2,515$2,41596.02%
Ended $3394,000$4,000$4,239105.97%
Combined9,555$9,555$9,29497.27%

But remember, these are just random sessions I selected just to show the contrast between different sessions.

In reality, the percentage of people who end up winning is even less.

To give you a final idea of what happened in the simulation of over 200,000, here are the numbers.

Reference 96 · 200,000 simulated sessions · $100 each · $1 a spin · up to 4,000 spins (6h 40m)

How they finished

Final PlayersShare
Ran out of money178,59689.30%
Still had money, but down2,5761.29%
Finished exactly even500.03%
Finished in profit18,7789.39%
Was ahead at some point162,29581.15%

The money

Amount DescriptionValue
Deposited$20,000,000
Total wagered$240,473,363 — 12.0× deposits
Credited back by the machines$230,912,082 — 96.024% of wagers
Casino kept$9,561,281
Players walked out with$10,438,719

Per player: 1,202 spins, $1,202 wagered, $1,155 won back, left with $52.19. Median ending balance: $0.00.

The machine returned 96.024% — slightly above spec — and still took 47.8% of every dollar deposited, because every dollar was staked twelve times over before it was gone.

There are two important things to note here.

Almost none of the “winnings” were ever money — The machines credited $230.9 million back to players. Only $10.4 million of it ever left as cash; the other 95.5% went straight back into the next spin. Players brought $20 million through the door and carried $10.4 million out. Everything in between happened on a credit meter.

Nine percent of players take almost everything that leaves — Players put in $20 million and took out $10.4 million. The 18,778 who finished ahead took $10.28 million of it. The other 181,222 split $153,724 between them, and 178,596 of those walked out with nothing at all.

81% of players were ahead at some point — This is the core psychological part of slot machines. Because if they can keep you playing, you are eventually going to lose, even if you are ahead at some point.

All this to say that the math favors the slots. Whether online or land based, they don’t need to be rigged. They just need to get you on the machine and make you play until you lose.

And that brings me to the third and most important point about slot machines being rigged.

The Psychology (the closest they come to being rigged)

To give you an idea of how the psychology of slots work, let me tell you a short story…

I just had a huge fight with my girlfriend. It almost felt like we were going to break up soon. I don’t remember what the fight was about, but I remember her sitting on the sofa and crying by the end of it.

It made me feel like crap. Like I was the worst boyfriend ever. And the worst part was, I didn’t have it in me to apologize and try to make her feel better. Because I knew if we talked about it more, it would lead to another fight. I felt helpless, like I had no control over what would happen in my life.

So I bailed. Went to my usual cafe, took out my phone, and started playing slots at one of my regular online casinos.

And within minutes, all the fear, anger, sadness, helplessness and shame I was feeling … was gone.

I completely forgot about what happened and was so immersed in the slots, that I was smiling in anticipation of a double bonus I could win. I felt in control again, even though I had absolutely no control over the outcome of my next spin. 

At that moment, it felt like slots are the fastest mood shifter. For some people, they can almost instantly make you forget about all the bad things happening in your life, and make you feel good about the next spin.

It’s because a lot of psychology goes behind the slot machines.

It wasn’t until I read the book “Addiction by Design” from Natasha Dow Schüll, that I found it’s very common in gambling addicts.

And she calls this psychological state “The Machine Zone”.

It’s a state where you are completely immersed in the game, and would do anything to prolong the play.

It stops being about winning big, and it becomes about avoiding real life with real problems.

Real money morphs into credits, your winnings become “free money” that you are likely to put back into the machine, and sometimes, you keep putting in more from your credit card if you are not careful.

For some problem gamblers, the act of losing money becomes an act of maintaining control. Schüll says about some problem gamblers..

“while playing the machines they remain somehow in charge; the control they experience, constricted as it may be, affords them a chance to change their relationship to loss—not by stopping or reversing it but by performing it themselves.

Schüll, Natasha Dow. Addiction by Design: Machine Gambling in Las Vegas (p. 216).“

Now you may be thinking, “Well this guy had a gambling problem, it doesn’t apply to me.”

And that’s true. Not everyone has a gambling problem. The point was to show you what some people feel like when they are at the rock bottom of problem gambling. 

And to tell you that it’s important to be aware of the psychological tactics slot machines use to hook you in. Because that’s the way they are truly rigged.

1. “The Machine Zone” or “The Dark Flow” –

The slot machine is designed to absorb you completely in the gameplay. Mike J Dixon and other researchers used the term “Dark Flow” to describe this state of absorption.

While Schüll uses the term “The Machine Zone”.

The term dark flow is interesting because it’s the same state as flow, where you completely get absorbed in the task you are doing. But most people experiencing that “flow” state in doing activities such as painting, rock climbing etc. get a net positive out of that state.

Whereas people who achieve that state using the slots tend to have a negative effect on their lives.

As I said earlier, I felt the machine was the fastest mood shifter for me, because it quickly and efficiently absorbed me in the gameplay. I would go into this “dark flow” state, forget all my worries and feel in control. But overall, this flow state slowly took away from my life in ways I didn’t recognize at the time.

2. Losses Disguised as Win –

Suppose you wager $1 in a spin and the machine pays you back $0.40. You are losing, but a lot of slots still play the “winning” sound and “winning” graphics.

As a result, your mind associates that with a win. Dixon and other researchers conducted a study that showed that losses disguised as wins can distort your perception of how much you’ve won and how much you’ve lost. 

3. The Near Miss Effect

When it feels like you are going to win, your mind and body feels like you actually won for a moment. That dopamine hit contributes to the overall experience.

For ordinary people, it doesn’t make much difference. For problem gamblers, or people chasing losses, that can make you want to play more. 

There have been two studies on this with the same conclusion.(Chase & Clark (2010), Journal of Neuroscience 30(18), 6180–6187 and https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4987843/ )

For me personally,  I always thought near misses were just part of the game. I enjoyed them. I can’t really testify if it made me play longer. However, near misses do really add to the whole psychological experience.

4. Sound and animation

The sound, the animation, the way the reels move, the way they show the winnings, it was all just so hypnotizing to me. It just made me want to spin the next game faster.

Of course, I had my preference. I liked the animations of some games and disliked others. Which is why there are so many different types of slots for one to choose from.

A 2026 study found the effect of sound and animation on online slot gambling had exactly the same effect on its participants as it had on me. It made them want to start the next spin sooner. The interesting part of the study was that it didn’t make people wager more, nor did it make them rate the experience any better.

But for me, this constituted part of the whole experience that made me want to play more, or use it as an escape from the stresses in my life.

5. Even If You Withdraw at the Right Time, You May Still Lose

While I was explaining the math of slots in the above, section you must have thought to yourself,

If I just withdraw as soon as I win big, I can still make a profit

And it’s true, you will make a profit. But the dopamine hit you get after winning big, and successfully withdrawing can sometimes make you want to play more.

I remember a guy in one of my GA meetings said,

the worst thing that happened to me was I won a huge amount the third time I played slot. I was smart enough back then to withdraw. But over the next few years, I had deposited 10 times the jackpot I won into slots. Had I not won that jackpot so early, I may have not have had such high hopes of winning again.

Even if you withdraw at the right time, Casinos know that the thrill of winning will entice you to come back. And they count on it.

6. The Bonuses and Everything else

Slots have evolved to become very complicated, but every aspect of them is designed to increase time on device. Because the math makes it very clear, the longer you play, the more the casinos profits.

This includes things like …

  • Spin speed
  • Bonuses
  • Auto play
  • Rewards
  • No que to stop playing
  • VIP Customer Schemes
  • And many more.

Yes, it makes the games more fun. But it also extends your time to play. Thus, increasing your chances of ending up in a loss (on the offchance you are in a profit), and at the same time, increasing your chances of getting addicted to the slots.

The Business

Casinos, online or land based, profit more the more time its patrons spend gambling. Time is the factor that most casinos don’t talk about in their advertisements or disclaimer. Because that’s where the real money is made.

As I displayed above, if you spend enough time playing slots, you are bound to lose eventually. There have been many user reported cases of winning a jackpot only to spend it all back into the same machine.

Here are some points about the casino industry and slots

The Casinos don’t make the slots

It’s built by a provider, certified by a lab, and the land casinos rent a sealed product they can’t open. In land casinos, you can see the details of the manufacturer and the lab that tested it on the side of the slot machines.

For online casinos, a regulated online casino doesn’t program the game, and they have no access to it’s code or its random number generator. For almost all jurisdictions that license online casinos, the game needs to be certified by an independent test house for its RNG and confirm the game pays what it claims.

The operator can never change the game, its rules, or the odds. Every spin is recorded in a remote server and its logs can be audited to verify if it’s actually paying the RTP it promises.

So it’s not rigged. And like I explained in the math section above, it doesn’t need to be rigged for the online casinos to make profit. They just need to keep you playing.

Casinos can choose which version of the game they want – 

The same game can give different RTP. So casinos have the freedom to choose which RTP version they want to install in their land based, or online casino.

Legally, the lowest RTP allowed is 75% in Nevada. But most casinos usually choose a better RTP (above 90%) to attract more customers.

They do aggressive marketing for customer retention –

Bonuses, free spin, matching your deposit, VIP scheme’s, daily bonuses, daily free spins etc. are all things casinos can control. Their aim is to get you to play more. And as I explained above, the more time you spend playing, the more money they make.

The Casino Business is Booming

The Casino Gambling Market according to Mordor Intelligence is at USD 359 Billion in 2026 and is expected almost double by 2031.

The online gambling market is USD102 billion in 2026 and is expected to grow to USD 212 Billion by 2031 according to Mordor Intelligence.

The UK Gambling Commission publishes Gambling Business Data regularly. And according to its latest data on gambling to March 2026, online casinos did very well in online slots.

Here are the numbers for April 2025 to March 2026 …

April 2025 – March 2026, online slots, ~70% of the GB market:

  • 99.6 billion spins (99,556,688,841)
  • 780.9 million sessions, averaging 15.6 minutes
  • 35.2 million sessions ran over an hour (4.51%)
  • ~4.6 million active accounts a month, 1,812 spins each per month
  • Operators kept £3.05 billion (£3,051,543,952 slots GGY)
  • 3.07p per spin, every spin, all 99.6 billion of them

All this to show you that in large numbers, casinos make a lot of money. Note that these numbers are from the UK, a country that has the most robust regulation in online casinos. And even after that, the online casinos made such massive numbers.

What do casinos get fined for?

The casinos, online or offline, rarely get fined for cheating or rigging. At least, I did not come across any recent case in my research.

But they do get fined regularly for failures to protect players, prevent money laundering, or operate with the correct license.

Here are some examples:

  • Spain: In May 2025, the regulator announced €77.4 million in penalties that became final during the second half of 2024. Of that, €75 million was imposed on 14 operators offering gambling without a Spanish licence.
  • Nevada: Four major enforcement cases in 2025 involved Resorts World — $10.5 million, MGM — $8.5 million, Caesars — $7.8 million, and Wynn — $5.5 million. These concerned anti-money laundering controls, dealings with illegal bookmakers, or prohibited financial transactions.
  • Great Britain: Greentube, trading as Admiral Casino, agreed to pay £1 million in January 2025 for social responsibility and anti-money laundering failures.
  • Sweden: Snabbare received a SEK5.5 million penalty in 2025 for anti-money laundering failures, including insufficient checks on where customers’ money came from.
  • The Netherlands: Unibet’s operator was fined €4 million in December 2025 for failing to meet its duty to protect players from excessive gambling and addiction.
  • The Isle of Man: Celton Manx received a £3,937,500 penalty for breaches of anti-money laundering and counter-terrorist-financing requirements.
  • Pennsylvania: BetMGM was fined $260,905 in January 2025 for allowing gambling in 152 instances involving people on the regulator’s online self-exclusion list.

These cases were not findings that casinos had rigged game outcomes.

I also found two British cases specifically concerning how online slots behave.

In June 2026, Stakelogic agreed to pay £122,835 after 16 games were found to allow play faster than the required minimum of 2.5 seconds between the start of one spin and the next.

In October 2025, Petfre, the operator of Betfred.com and Oddsking.com, was fined £240,000. Some games failed to display the player’s net position, while others used celebratory effects for returns that did not exceed the amount staked.

For scale: the operators in that same market kept £3.05 billion from slots in the year. The biggest fine on this list is about three hours of it.

Neither case established that the games’ outcomes were rigged. They concerned breaches of rules about the speed of play and how wins and losses are presented to players.

Again, that just shows how casinos do break rules to try to get you to play longer. But the game still produces fair random outcomes.

Conclusion

So are slots rigged? No.

The slots don’t need to cheat. The math takes four cents out of every dollar you stake and then waits. Everything else in there is built to get you to stake it again.

I spent years looking for proof the game was cheating me. If it was rigged, my losses weren’t my fault. If it wasn’t, my turn was coming. Both kept me playing.

The real way they are rigged is because they are addictive by design. They’re built to make you addicted, even if it costs you your mental health, your relationships and your bank account.

My friend and co-author of this website, Marcus, still enjoys slots every once in a while because he is not addicted to them the same way I was. But for me, slots were a trap to keep me hooked until I was broke. Which is why I stopped playing them.

Unscrupulous Casinos Targetting At Risk Gamblers Using Meta Ads in The USA and Canada

March 12, 2026 by theexgambler Leave a Comment

Meta has been criticized for allowing sites that were not in “GamStop” self-exclusion scheme in the UK.

Britain’s Gambling Commission recently said that Meta Platforms, the owner of Facebook and Instagram, was turning a blind eye to illegal online casinos advertising on its sites, indicating it was happy to continue taking money from criminals.

In addition, there have been reports of Meta showing gambling ads in country where gambling is banned.

On March 12th 2026, The Ex Gambler found more than 12 ads in the Meta Ads Library targeting at risk gamblers and problem gamblers in the USA and Canada.

These companies use the wording “not on Gamstop” to imply that if you have self-excluded elsewhere, you can still gamble on their platforms.

It’s interesting to note that GamStop is only available for UK residents. But these companies have been targeting Canada and USA residents with a “No GamStop” tag.

We believe this is to target gamblers who have self-excluded from licensed casinos in their jurisdiction or have self-excluded from other Online Casinos.

GamStop usually comes up in Google searches whenever someone searches for self-exclusion, even if they are not in the UK. As such, GamStop has become synonymous with self-exclusion.

When these ads say “Not on GamStop”. The viewer sees it as somewhere they can gamble even though they have self-excluded. Possibly finding them in a moment of weakness when they feel an urge to gamble.

These ads don’t make it obvious in the text copy of the ad that the casino is not on GamStop.

Instead, it uses a small logo at the bottom of the video which shows that the casino is not on Gamstop.

In addition, these ads usually also have a short video which says that the casino is not on Gamstop.

For example, the online casino Golden Clover, has an ad currently running on Meta in Canada, with the transcript

“Welcome Bonus 499 free spins plus one special spin, to all the new players from the best online casino not on gamstop.

Register right now to get 499 free spins, plus one special spin.”

Photo of ad shown to demonstrate how these Casinos target at risk gamblers.

According to our findings, there are currently 11 ads in Canada that target at risk gamblers, and 1 ad in the USA. These are the casinos currently running these ads on Meta

Canada Ads targeting at risk gamers are run by these casinos –

  • Golden Clover
  • Online Wins
  • Spin Masters Arena
  • Daily Big Wins

USA Ads Targetting at risk gamers are run by these casinos –

  • Vegas07

You can see the screenshot below of the casino and ads as found on Meta ads library as of March 12th, 2026.

The Vivid Heartbreaking Statistics of Young Men and Gambling Addiction

March 7, 2026 by theexgambler Leave a Comment

“I can beat the system.”; I always thought this to myself. “I just need to figure it out.” And then when I would win something, I’d convince myself that “I have a system. Others just gamble. But I have a system.” Only to eventually lose the winnings over the next few weeks. And then, I would go back to the “I just need to figure it out and refine my system.”

This mentality, this confidence (or overconfidence), is what the online casino industry counts on. And guess what, this mentality is prevalent in young men. It doesn’t matter how smart you are, how great your GPAs were, how you were always disciplined, and how bright of a future you think you have. Once gambling hijacks your brain, all your good qualities will turn against you.

That’s what happened to me. I was reasonably smart and had good grades. But that’s what got to me and got me hooked to gambling online.

I have been criticising gambling and casino advertising on this website for a while now. I think it is one of the major reasons why so many young men are turning to gambling and consequently becoming problem gamblers. And I wish someone would have painted a vivid picture of what it would be like if I got addicted to gambling. Maybe it would have made me stop sooner. I say maybe because I really don’t know if my arrogant self would have listened. But I owe it to the next generation of young gamblers to at least try.

In this article, I want to try to paint a picture of what happens to young men who get addicted to gambling using statistics and some expert commentaries. While these are not stories, the numbers do give you a good idea of what are your chances of becoming addicted to gambling.

1. Some students are gambling with money meant for school and food

A 2025 survey of 2,000 university students in the UK found that 17% of students who gambled used their student loan to fund gambling.

The consequences were immediate:

  • 10% struggled to afford food
  • 6% tried to access hardship loans
  • 4% had deferred or considered dropping out of university

Source:
https://ygam.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Annual-Student-Gambling-Survey-2025_v3.pdf

2. Almost everyone loses money gambling

A massive analysis of more than 700,000 gamblers found that 96% of players lost money when gambling online.

Only about 4% consistently made money.

That statistic alone explains why gambling addiction can become financially devastating so quickly.

I know what you are thinking. “I can be that 4% who consistently makes money from gambling.” But remember that overconfidence is what the casinos are relying on.

The fact is, there are much better and safer ways to invest money and make money over the long term. Gambling takes away your ability to think long term and build wealth for yourself and your future family.

Source:
https://rady.ucsd.edu/why/news/2024/07-23-legalized-gambling-increases-irresponsible-betting-behavior-especially-among-low-income-populations.html

3. Young men are the group most likely to develop gambling problems

A 2024 survey found that 10% of men aged 18–30 showed signs of problem gambling behavior.

In comparison, only about 3% of the overall population showed similar risk levels.

Source:
https://www.fdu.edu/news/fdu-poll-finds-online-betting-leads-to-problems-for-young-men/

4. Problem Gamblers Are Thinking About Placing a Bet All Day and All Night Long

There isn’t a reputable study regarding this, but once gambling hijacks your brain, all you think of is betting all day and all night long.

This is what happened to me when I was in the thick of it. I was constantly trying to beat the system. I would wake up in the middle of the night thinking of which bets to place. I would think of bets in the shower, while driving, while talking to my girlfriend. It wouldn’t leave my mind.

According to a clinician on 60 minutes, young men are placing bets from their phones while watching sports, scrolling social media, or hanging out with friends. And according to clinicians, the behavior can become so constant that some gamblers are placing bets while showering or even while driving.

Source: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/young-gamblers-sports-betting-addiction-60-minutes/

5. For many young men, gambling is tied directly to sports

Among university students who gamble, online sports betting is the most common activity for male students.

In one student survey:

  • 1 in 4 male student gamblers bet on sports
  • Those students bet about 91 days per year on average

Source:
https://ygam.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Annual-Student-Gambling-Survey-2025_v3.pdf

6. Many young people gamble because they think they will make money

In the same student survey, 45% of student gamblers said they gambled to make money.

Among male students, that number rose to 50%.

This belief—that gambling is a way to earn money—is one of the most common misconceptions researchers see among young gamblers.

Source:
https://ygam.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Annual-Student-Gambling-Survey-2025_v3.pdf

7. Kids recognize betting brands before they can legally gamble

A study of 11- to 16-year-olds in Australia found that 81% could name at least one sports betting brand.

Even more concerning:

22.5% said they intended to gamble on sports once they turned 18.

Source:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6376397/

8. Young adults are constantly exposed to gambling advertising

During the 2022 FIFA World Cup, a study of young adults aged 18–24 found that:

  • 95.6% recalled ads for bet types
  • 89.5% recalled ads for bonuses or inducements
  • 64% recalled ads for in-play betting

Participants reported seeing 10–14 betting ads per week on social media alone.

There was a similar experience with the recent Superbowl. And I expect it to continue in all major sporting events in the future. The only thing we can do is educate ourselves of how this type of advertising affects us.

Source:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38568338/

9. Gambling problems often peak in young adulthood

Long-term research shows that gambling and gambling problems tend to increase during adolescence and peak in the twenties and thirties, especially among men.

Sources:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20499144/
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7395026/

10. Gambling harm among men is far more common than most people realize

According to the World Health Organization:

  • 11.9% of men globally experience some level of gambling harm
  • compared with 5.5% of women

Source:
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/gambling

11. Gambling Harm is linked to suicide

A population study in Victoria, Australia found that 4.2% of suicides between 2009 and 2016 were linked to gambling problems.

Imagine the pain and horror one can cause to their families and loved ones when they find out someone committed suicide because of gambling. Just know that gambling, as a path, can lead to this.

Instead of going down this path, imagine a path where you can build a secure financial future for yourself and your family. And believe me, it is possible without gambling. But if you get engrossed in this life, you will never see that other path because gambling will hijack your brain.

Source:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38223397/

A way forward

I am writing this in hopes that this article finds people before gambling addiction destroys a young person’s life. And if you are a young person reading this, know that gambling is not the only way to make money. Just a simple google search will give you a lot of safe, healthy ways to increase your wealth without sacrificing your health.

Come back to gambling when you are financially secure and you are absolutely sure you can gamble responsibly. That means not wagering more than 1% of your income. If you can’t do that, it’s time to step back and reassess how you want your future to play out.

Other relevant and important studies

There have been a lot of studies on gambling harm and gambling culture. I researched many of them for this article but didn’t include all of them in the above list. However, you can find some of the most relevant studies on gambling below to give you some more perspective.

  1. Men are significantly more likely than women to develop problem gambling, and the gender gap is largest in younger age groups – Source: Calado & Griffiths (2016) – Prevalence of Adolescent Problem Gambling
  2. Adolescents who start gambling early are significantly more likely to develop gambling problems later in adulthood – Source: Dowling et al. (2017) – Youth Gambling Risk Factors
  3. Online gamblers are more likely to experience gambling problems than those who only gamble offline – Source: Gainsbury et al. (2015) – Internet Gambling vs Offline Gambling
  4. Young men who engage in multiple forms of gambling are significantly more likely to develop gambling disorder – Source: LaPlante et al. (2011) – Multiple Gambling Activities and Risk
  5. People with gambling disorder frequently experience depression, anxiety, and substance use disorders at higher rates than the general population – Source: Lorains et al. (2011) – Comorbidity in Problem Gambling
  6. Problem gamblers are far more likely to experience financial hardship and debt than recreational gamblers – Source: The Lancet Public Health Commission on Gambling (2024)
  7. Young men exposed to sports betting advertising report higher intentions to gamble in the future – Source: Deans et al. (2017) – Marketing and Sports Betting Attitudes
  8. Gambling advertising during sports broadcasts increases brand awareness and betting intentions among adolescents – Source: Pitt et al. (2018) – Gambling Advertising Recall in Youth
  9. Young men often describe sports betting as an integral part of watching sports with friends – Source: McGee (2020) – Normalisation of Online Sports Gambling
  10. People experiencing gambling problems are significantly more likely to report suicidal thoughts than non-gamblers – Source: Wardle et al. (2015) – Gambling and Suicidal Behaviour
  11. Individuals with gambling disorder may face suicide risks many times higher than the general population – Source: Karlsson & Håkansson (2018) – Suicide in Gambling Disorder
  12. Young adults are more likely than older adults to participate in online gambling and sports betting – Source: Gambling Commission – Gambling Survey for Great Britain
  13. Online sports betting users show significantly higher rates of problem gambling compared with lottery-only gamblers – Source: Australian Gambling Research Centre – Gambling Activity in Australia
  14. Moderate-risk gamblers account for a large proportion of total gambling harm in the population – Source: Browne et al. (2016) – Distribution of Gambling Harm
  15. Family members of problem gamblers often experience financial stress, relationship conflict, and emotional distress – Source: Goodwin et al. (2017) – Gambling Harm to Affected Others
  16. Many people experiencing gambling harm do not seek professional help due to stigma and shame – Source: Hing et al. (2013) – Stigma and Help-Seeking in Gambling
  17. Self-exclusion programs can reduce gambling participation but many individuals eventually return to gambling – Source: Ladouceur et al. (2017) – Effectiveness of Self-Exclusion Programs
  18. Young men with higher impulsivity and sensation-seeking traits are significantly more likely to develop gambling problems – Source: Canale et al. (2016) – Personality Traits and Gambling
  19. Financial stress and borrowing money to gamble are strong predictors of severe gambling harm – Source: Australian Institute of Health and Welfare – Gambling in Australia
  20. Public health estimates suggest that millions of people worldwide experience gambling-related harm, even outside clinical addiction – Source: World Health Organization – Gambling Fact Sheet

Young Men Are Going To Fight an Uphill Battle Against Gambling (Analysis of Research Finding from Ontario)

March 5, 2026 by theexgambler Leave a Comment

I remember when online casinos got to me during Covid. I was still young but I had been predisposed to gambling and online gambling for since I was 15. I heard people talk about gambling harm and problem gambling and I sort of understood the risks associated with it. But I never truly comprehended it until I experienced it.

Imagine feeling so much anxiety and shame that you gambled that you want to just somehow shut down your brain. You sleep thinking about your shame and you wake up with anxiety thinking how stupid you were to lose all that money.

And you still go online to bet more.

It’s debilitating and compulsive at the same time. Gambling not only beats you down, it then picks you up, slaps you in the face and makes you gamble again.

And the cycle of shame repeats itself again.

I was lucky to have found someone to support me through my recovery. But I don’t know if it will be the same for so many young people out there who are exposed to gambling advertisements like gambling is just candy waiting for them to take it and enjoy.

A recent study, conducted by researchers from University of Toronto, found a rise in young men contacting ConnexOntario, a government funded mental health and addiction service, for gambling related issues.


The goal of ConnexOntario is to connect people in need with an appropriate mental health, addiction or gambling support service.

According to the research, Ontario’s rollout of government-run online gambling in 2015 and the 2022 expansion to a privatized market (including single-event sports betting) were each followed by substantial increases in gambling-related contacts to ConnexOntario, rising from 13.4 per million (pre-2015) to 26.2 per million after privatization, with the combined policy effect estimated at +20.8 contacts per million by September 2025 (~198% higher than the no-expansion counterfactual). These increases occurred almost entirely among adolescent boys and men aged 15–44, with the sharpest rise in males 15–24 (estimated +144% to +338% depending on the counterfactual scenario).

The study argues that the rise in gambling-related queries wouldn’t have been so much if the government didn’t expand online gambling and open the market to private betting companies. In other words, researchers estimate that a large share of the increase in helpline contacts would likely not have occurred if online gambling platforms like PlayOLG and the later privatized online betting market had never been introduced.

I agree. Because one of the reasons my brain was so addicted to gambling was because it was so easily accessible to me all the time. It was literally on my phone. Yes, I could have self-excluded. And I did it a few times. But then I would find ways around it or just wait it out until the self-exclusion lifted.

Another reason for my addiction was because I was young and I always thought I could beat the system. I felt the ads had a lot to do with it. The ads always make you feel like you can win. And that feeling stays in the back of a young man’s mind. Because we are young, we have hope and we want to win in life.

People Contact Helpline When They Cross the “I can’t handle this” Threshold

I can’t emphasise enough how hard it is for most people to seek out help. Men are programmed biologically and socially to handle their problems on their own. At least, I was. I thought I could do it. And it took a lot of strength to share my shame with someone, even if it was a stranger.

Another part of the struggle is that a lot of people reach out for help, but then quickly find a reason to not follow through with it. They tell themselves things like, “I don’t think this will help me.” or “I don’t think I can do this.” or “What if I continue with this and my family finds out?”

A lot of men prefer to continue to suffer in shame rather than be exposed and show their vulnerable side to the people close to them.

Perhaps that is one of the reasons young men are the prime target for these gambling advertisements.

This hesitation to seek help shows up clearly in research. A global review found that only about 1 in 5 people with problem gambling ever seek help (Bijker et al., 2022 ), and another review reports that only about 1 in 10 people with gambling problems actually enter treatment, often after suffering symptoms for 7–10 years (Quigley, 2022). Even in places where gambling problems increased sharply, like Ontario after online gambling expansion, helpline contacts still averaged only 26.2 per million people per month, showing how rarely people reach out for help (CMAJ study).

The Real Numbers of The Rise of Gambling Addiction In Men

If you turn the Ontario numbers into real people, the scale becomes clearer. After the province opened online gambling to private operators, gambling-related contacts to ConnexOntario averaged 26.2 per million adults per month. In a province the size of Ontario, that translates to roughly 350–450 gambling-related contacts every month, or several thousand a year. And that figure only reflects one provincial helpline—many people seek help through other services, private treatment programs, therapists, support groups like Gamblers Anonymous, or other crisis lines. In other words, ConnexOntario is only capturing a slice of the help-seeking that actually happens.

Now combine that with what research says about how rarely people ask for help in the first place. A global meta-analysis found that only about 1 in 5 people with problem gambling ever seek help, and other research shows only about 1 in 10 enter formal treatment, often after suffering for 7–10 years before reaching out. When you put those numbers together, a rise in helpline contacts likely represents a much larger number of people quietly struggling behind the scenes, many of whom never appear in any official statistics at all.

The Silver Lining

The silver lining in all of this is that young men are reaching out for help more. That makes me feel that the society as a whole is making it more acceptable for young men to seek help. I believe the internet, the responsible gaming initiative, social support forums such as r/Gamblingrecovery and the information available online about gambling addiction helps people reach out more.

One study reports that people with gambling problems suffer from symptoms for 7-10 years before actually entering treatment.

But if men aged 15-24 are reaching out to these helplines and entering treatment after that, then it means they got help much faster than the average (assuming majority of them started gambling at 18).

This could mean two things – 

  1. They are suffering faster and harder. This could be due to the easily available gambling options available to them.
  2. They are becoming aware of their gambling problem faster. Which means that the information available for gambling disorders is actually working.

The reality is that it’s likely both to some extent.

Whatever it is, I do see some hope for young men out there who may be susceptible to gambling addiction. I am, after all, an optimist.

The Super Bowl May Ruin a Small Portion of Society

February 20, 2026 by theexgambler Leave a Comment

I dabbled in sports betting. And by dabbled, I mean that I lost thousands of dollars on sports betting. And then much more chasing those losses in Online Casinos.

Superbowl was always the biggest night of the year. And it is what got me started on sports betting.

I would pretty much bet on everything possible. What song will be performed during half time, the length of the national anthem, the first team to score, the first penalty, the color of the Gatorade.

If they had the option to bet on it, I would bet on it. I thought it was just harmless fun. I would bet small amounts. Because honestly, I didn’t think sports betting was my forte. But I would still bet. Because the thrill of gambling, combined with the grandeur or Superbowl was just too tempting to resist.

But it got me hooked. Just like a simple online casino ad got me hooked on online slots a few years ago.

This harmless fun led me down a path where I would spend thousands of dollars on sports betting of all sorts.

It wasn’t my main source of gambling. But it was still a huge part of the losses I incurred.

And after losing on sports betting, I would chase those losses in online casinos. In blackjack, slots, etc. Sometimes, I would win. But like all problem gamblers eventually realize, overall, I would always be in a loss.

The 2026 Superbowl reminded me of what I used to do. Everyone around me was talking about some sort of bets, money lines, point spread etc. And everything was triggering me. I have problem gambling tools to stop me from gambling. But I just couldn’t help but think that some poor guy somewhere is going to lose their life savings on Superbowl. 

And I can’t do anything about it.

Well, I can, at the very least, write this article.

Super Bowl Commercials 

Kendell Jenner, in her superbowl ad, said “how do you think I afford all this? Modeling?”. Implying she is rich because of gambling. In other words, she is selling you the dream of gambling and making a lot of money.

This is again the opposite of what responsible gambling is. They are allowed to portray gambling as something that can make you rich, as long as you show  a small disclaimer about gambling harm.

But the truth is, 99% of people lose money gambling. Even the ones who win, eventually lose everything back if they continue gambling.

The house always wins.

So some poor sod may get hooked on gambling with the dream of getting rich like Kendell Jenner. And end up ruining his life and losing his life saving on something that he never had a chance to win at.

And if you are wondering if she really made money with gambling, she did not. She is rich because she’s a global model, media personality, and businesswoman; earning through fashion contracts, brand partnerships, and her own companies.

It’s the biggest day for Sports Betting

A record $1.76 billion was wagered on Superbowl in 2026, according to the American Gaming Association. And I suspect it’s going to get bigger every year.

The superbowl, in itself, has become one of the biggest gambling ads in the world. Not because it hosts gambling ads. But because everything about the Superbowl has become about gambling.

When I was a child, the superbowl was about football and ads. There is even a How I Met Your Mother episode on super bowl where half of the group watches super bowl for the ads, and the other half for the sports. But now, it seems it’s all about gambling. The superbowl ads were either gambling or AI. And the sports felt more about the odds and spread and less about football.

NFL, gives a really optimistic view of their gambling advertisement. They say, 

“Betting commercials account for a single-digit percentage of total Super Bowl ads, and the event has never reached the six-ad maximum due to economic constraints. A 30-second Super Bowl commercial costs around $8 million, with additional production expenses, limiting participation. The two most recent Super Bowls each featured ads from two betting brands.”

Yeah, but the truth is, every aspect of the superbowl is filled with gambling references. A study, done by researchers at University of Bristol, found that there were more than 3 gambling references every minute in super bowl finals. 

In contrast, NBA games featured far less gambling references.

Not to mention the in stadium ads and the jersey patches. According to the authors of the study, 

“On both leagues, the most common formats were in stadium visual integrations: ringside hoardings, electronic boards, Jersey patches, and static structures. These formats oɈer brands persistent exposure, aligning with prior work showing that physical placement within live sport delivers substantial visibility.”

The bottom line is, millions of Americans, especially the young Americans, watching the superbowl were exposed to gambling more than they would have been exposed 10 years ago.

And gambling is portrayed as a fun, entertaining, harmless activity. In some advertisements, it is portrayed as an activity that can make you rich.

But the reality is, it’s far from that. Most people never win anything online. And it’s not just entertainment.

It’s been studied rigorously that gambling hijacks your brain for some people. And they end up losing much more they can afford.

For example, just in this superbowl, a Redditor claims to have lost around $20k. A problem gambler who was unable to stop himself from gambling.

The redditor claimed to have tried GA and and self-excluded, but he always found a way around it. And he claims to have lost around $350k, his 4 year savings, in 1 year.

He probably could afford losing all that. But still a huge amount of money to lose even if you are rich. Something he could have avoided if he never got into gambling to begin with.

And even now, if he wants to quit, the easily accessible gambling apps and the rampant advertising will make it extremely difficult for him to quit.

Should Everyone Stop Having Fun Just Because of Some Addicts?

That’s really the biggest question. After all, gambling is fun for a lot of people. And it’s their choice whether or not they want to gamble. Why should everyone suffer because of a few addicts?

They shouldn’t. But as a society, we should try to protect the weakest of us. In terms of gambling, some people are problem gamblers and they end up losing their life savings on something that is guaranteed to make them lose.

The problem is the predatory practice of these gambling apps and sportsbooks. They portray gambling as a fun, harmless activity. 

All you have to do is practice responsible gambling.

But for an 18 year old kid, who does not know the depth of misery gambling addiction can cause, this warning is not enough.

We need to be better at warning others of the harm of gambling before they become problem gamblers. If they are more aware of how gambling hijacks their brain and how shame takes over their life, they may avoid a lifetime of misery caused by gambling addiction.

Epilogue

I have been a victim of this sort of advertising. I thought I could be a responsible gambler. I was aware of  the risks, but was not aware of how easy it is to lose control. And I know a lot of problem gamblers who got caught in the gambling trap the same way I was.

I know a lot of people enjoy gambling casually. And I do think it brings a lot of excitement to sports for a lot of people. But I hope we can find a better balance between raising awareness of problem gambling and advertising gambling and sportsbetting app to young people who are susceptible to this.

How I Stopped Gambling Using Psychology and Tools

February 4, 2026 by theexgambler Leave a Comment

The thoughts of gambling, beating the system, my favorite slots, finding a better casino, better bonuses etc. ruled my mind 24/7.

It was an obsession in the strictest meaning of that term. I couldn’t really think about anything else.

When I would talk to my girlfriend, I would try my best to listen to the conversation, even reply to her questions cohesively and even show her empathy and affection when she needed it.

But at the same time, at the back of mind, these thoughts were always there. It’s like my mind was always running trying to find a solution to this problem.

One of the reasons why my mind was obsessed was the mindset that Adam Sandler said in his recent movie “Hustle” – “Obsession beats talent every time”.

And my core belief was that I could beat the system. Hence, if I obsess over it enough, I can find a solution.

But here’s where Gambling is different. You can not beat it. No matter how talented you are. No matter how obsessed you are.

You just can’t beat it.

Gambling is not like Basketball where if you practice hard enough, you can be great.

It’s like gravity. No matter how hard you jump, how many systems you use, or how much you think about beating it, you are going to come back down.

While a lot of people enjoy the high of the jump and coming back down, it’s different for a problem gambler.

Because for someone like me, whose whole life revolved around gambling, you are eroding the ground beneath you every time you gamble and before you know it, you have dug yourself in a hole you feel you can’t get out of.

But even though it feels impossible – you can get out of the hole. And here’s how I did it.

The 3 things to take control of – 

  1. Yourself
  2. Your Support
  3. Tools

1. Understanding Yourself – 

The more you lie, the more you isolate yourself. That’s what I did, I was lying. Because I believed I was in control. That a huge win is only a few games away.

But like all addicts, I was lying to myself more than I was lying to my family.

I told myself I was in control but I wasn’t.

The truth is, we try to rationalize everything we do when we are addicted. But in reality, we are addicted and the wiring of our brain is altered.

That’s what happens when you are addicted to drugs or anything else.

The first step is understanding and accepting that your brain is working against you. If you allow yourself to, you will rationalize yourself to gamble again. So you need to take the power away from yourself. And give the power to someone else.

This is why the first step of Gambler’s Anonymous is to accept that you are powerless over gambling.

“We admitted we were powerless over gambling and that our lives had become unmanageable.”

Note that powerless does not mean you are weak or incapable of recovery. It means that your brain is addicted and you have no power or control over the thought process that will lead to recovery.

Alen Carr, in his extremely helpful book, “The Easy Way To Stop Gambling” argues that gambling doesn’t really give you high, it just makes you feel normal. Because when you are not gambling, you feel anxious and emotional discomfort.

It’s like banging your head against the wall constantly, and when you stop you feel better. The way gambling addiction hijacks your brain makes you feel like you are banging your head against a wall when you are not gambling.

The key to quit gambling, according to Allen Carr, is to reframe your mindset to realizing you are not a Gambler.

In my experience, it’s not very easy to do unless you go through a hypnotist or you read through Allen Carr’s book.

But that’s a very lonely way of going about your quitting journey because you have to do everything yourself.

Most successful cases of Gambling Recovery come from communities such as Gamblers Anonymous and reading stories of other Gambling Addicts. This is why it’s important to develop a support network.

Here’s a link of helpful resources to understand your Gambling Addiction and How It Affects Your Mind

These resources focus on why gambling addiction rewires your brain, how rationalization works, and why willpower alone is rarely enough.

  • The Easy Way to Stop Gambling – Allen Carr
    A mindset focused approach that explains why gambling does not actually give pleasure, but only relieves the discomfort it creates. Helpful for understanding mental traps and false beliefs around control.
  • National Council on Problem Gambling
    Clear explanations of gambling addiction, warning signs, and how addiction affects decision making and impulse control.
    Website includes education and self assessment tools.
  • Gambling Therapy
    Educational articles explaining the psychology of gambling addiction, urges, relapse cycles, and emotional regulation.
  • Harvard Health Publishing
    In depth articles on behavioral addiction and how dopamine driven habits alter the brain in similar ways to drugs.
  • Addiction by Design
    Explains how gambling products are engineered to hijack attention and decision making. Especially useful for breaking the illusion of control.

2. Your Support Network

The second thing you need to rally is support. The fact is, human beings are social creatures. And we need stories of other human beings, we need connection, we crave love and we crave validation.

As it happened in my case, I just needed someone to believe in me. Maybe I would have done it myself after hitting rock bottom multiple times. But just the fact that my girlfriend believes that underneath all that shitty behavior, I am a good person capable of recovery was enough to get me going.

I relied on her support throughout my recovery. In addition, I joined GA and a lot of online forums to help me through the recovery process.

Gambling thrives in secrecy.

Shame convinces people they should handle it alone. That isolation strengthens the habit and weakens accountability.

Support does not mean public confession or constant discussion. It means not being alone with the problem.

Support can include:

  • One trusted person who knows the truth
  • A peer group with shared experience
  • Professional help focused on behavior without judgment
  • Educational resources that explain what is happening in your mind

Many people find value in programs like Gamblers Anonymous, while others choose therapy or structured self guided recovery. What matters is not the method, but consistency and honesty.

Support gives perspective when your thinking becomes distorted. It reminds you that urges pass and that recovery is possible.

I let Gambling take control over me when I felt the need to hide and lie about it. But when my girlfriend showed me that I can trust her, it changed everything for me. Suddenly, I was not alone. 

Even if you don’t have a trusted family member or friend, you can still find support in online communities, GA meetings and other places.

Here are some of the best resources for support through Gambling Recovery – 

These resources focus on removing isolation, sharing responsibility, and giving power to a support system instead of relying on self control.

  • Gamblers Anonymous
    A worldwide peer support fellowship based on shared experience.
    The first step focuses on accepting powerlessness over gambling to interrupt rationalization.
  • Gam-Anon
    Support for family members and partners affected by gambling addiction. Helps rebuild trust and communication.
  • Reddit r/problemgambling
    Anonymous community where people share real experiences, relapses, progress, and coping strategies.
  • SMART Recovery
    A non twelve step option focused on cognitive behavioral tools and emotional regulation. Useful for people who want a structured approach without spirituality.
  • Gambling Help Online
    Practical guides, live chat support, and education around urges, triggers, and relapse prevention.
  • After Gambling Podcast
    A podcast that shares real stories of people who went through gambling addiction and recovered. Very helpful when you are going through it alone.

3. Tools

Protection during weak moments

Tools are the difference between intention and action.

Blocking tools and self exclusion exist because gambling urges are temporary, but access makes them dangerous.

For me, tools were just that. Tools. I tried using them before but I always knew I could find a way around them if I wanted. I would self-restrict for a few months knowing I will get back to gambling once it’s over.

Tools definitely help, but they must be accompanied by understanding your brain on addiction and a support system. In my experience, tools alone fail to keep addiction at bay. But for full recovery, they are an essential and a very useful part.

Tools help because they:

  • Remove immediate access during emotional spikes
  • Interrupt impulsive decisions
  • Create space between urge and action
  • Reduce mental fatigue from constant resistance

Effective tools include:

  • Self exclusion from gambling platforms
  • Blocking software across devices
  • Bank and payment restrictions
  • Transaction limits and account separation

These tools act as safeguards while your brain relearns healthier patterns –

Self Exclusion Programs

Self exclusion prevents access to licensed gambling platforms for a fixed period of time.

  • GamStop
    UK wide self exclusion covering most licensed online casinos and betting sites.
  • BetStop
    National self exclusion register for online wagering in Australia.
  • Cruks
    Central exclusion register blocking access to both online and land based gambling in the Netherlands.
  • Spelpaus
    Government backed self exclusion covering all licensed Swedish operators.
  • GameSense
    Offers exclusion programs and education in several regions including Canada.

Gambling Blocking Software

Blocking software works across devices and prevents access to gambling websites and apps.

  • GamBan
    One of the most widely used gambling blocking tools. Covers websites, apps, and online casinos across multiple devices.
  • BetBlocker
    Free blocking software that restricts access to thousands of gambling sites worldwide.
  • Net Nanny
    Can be configured to block gambling content and enforce accountability through monitoring.
  • Cold Turkey Blocker
    Allows strict blocking schedules that cannot be easily reversed during urges.

Bank and Payment Restrictions

Financial friction is one of the strongest protective barriers.

  • Monzo
    Offers built in gambling transaction blocks.
  • Starling Bank
    Allows users to block gambling payments instantly.
  • Revolut
    Gambling controls and spending limits that can be locked in place.
  • Credit Card Gambling Blocks
    Many banks now allow gambling transactions to be blocked at card level. This removes impulsive deposits during emotional spikes.

In addition to all the above resources, make sure to check our 30 days gambling clarity email course which is a free resource for anyone who wants to get some clarity on their gambling problem.

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